Although no one really admits it, the people do make the place, which is why making friends and meeting new people can be imperative to having a good experience in a new foreign country. It can be a very daunting task and honestly, it may even feel like a chore, because putting yourself out there can be intimidating, especially when it involves a different culture or even a different language.
In my week and a half of being in Edinburgh, I have met various people, some that I only really met once and others who I have been lucky to hang out with various times. The key is to know that you are not alone, and there are multiple people that are experiencing the same feeling and uncertainness of what to do.
One of the best tricks I have for meeting people is to ask questions. It truly is heartwarming learning that almost everyone is willing to help. To be blunt, there will be some that may be curt with you, but that number is completely overshadowed by the many more that are outgoing and immediately flash you a smile. Tip: find those that look a little lost, just like you are; I can not highlight how many times I made a familiar face in a class or simply somebody to smile at when walking on the street, all through asking where a certain building is. Start conversations with people, compliment them, and know that nothing bad can come from this.
Two friends gave me valuable advice before leaving: say yes for the first two weeks: explore, hang out with friends, say yes to lunch even if you just met them, and the second piece of advice is to know that nobody knows you here: be who you want to be. For example, after being somebody that is constantly late I have gaslit myself to be early, and so far it has worked; further, all of a sudden I hear someone speak Spanish and my head snaps and I am asking them where they are from and talking to them. Common interests will be your best friend, find something to connect with people on, and if you can not, then connect on the differences.
Lastly, the best tip is to know that talking to people is not weird. Often, we all get in our heads about approaching someone, but also remember you are only here for a semester, and it is better to try, learn, and experience.
Laura Sánchez Ramírez
Spring 2025
GW Exchange - University of Edinburgh
Elliott School of International Affairs
International Affairs & International Business Double Major