Studying abroad is an exhilarating journey about stepping into the unknown and experiencing a new culture. But for many, making friends in a new country can seem daunting, especially when language barriers, cultural differences, and homesickness play a role. However, from my experience with a positive approach and a few practical strategies, making friends while studying abroad can be one of the most rewarding parts of your experience. Here’s my 5 tips to help you cultivate friendships that will enrich your study abroad journey.
1. Embrace the Art of Small Talk
Small talk can be the gateway to deeper conversations. While it might feel superficial at first, it helps build rapport and opens the door to getting to know someone on a more personal level. Ask questions about recent travel experiences or food recommendations—these topics are universal and often easy for people to respond to. You might be surprised how quickly a conversation about favorite foods or weekend plans can turn into a lasting connection.
Advice: The implementation of small talk is particularly helpful in the classroom setting where there is little time to converse.
2. Join Clubs, Societies, and Events
Almost every international university or study abroad program has a wide range of clubs and societies that cater to various interests—sports, arts, music, debate, volunteering, and more. Joining these organizations provides a perfect opportunity to meet people with similar interests.
Advice: Most universities surprisingly have clubs surrounding traditional American sports such as football and baseball.
3. Live with Local Students
Housing is one of the most important factors in creating a network abroad. If possible, try to live in a dorm or shared apartment with other students. Living with others gives you built-in friends and helps you avoid feeling isolated. Plus, your roommates or flatmates can introduce you to their social circles, providing even more opportunities to connect.
Advice: Some of the best friends I have made are from my dorm. Planned dinner nights are
especially great for roommate bonding.
4. Attend Cultural Events and Local Festivals
Cultural events are not only fun, but they’re also a fantastic way to learn more about the place you’re calling home for the next few months or years. Many cities host events year-round, whether it’s a music festival, food fair’s, or holiday celebrations. By participating in these events, you’re likely to meet people who are open to socializing and celebrating together.
Advice: I made a couple of my friends at a halloween celebration so cultural events are
something I highly recommend attending to gain friends.
5. Be Patient and Open-Minded
Forming meaningful friendships takes time. While it can be tempting to replicate friendships from home immediately, remember that friendships, especially cross-cultural ones, often evolve gradually. Be patient with yourself and others, and try to approach interactions with an open
mind. There might be cultural nuances you don’t fully understand at first, but being respectful and curious will help you connect on a deeper level.
Advice: Specifically in my host country- that being Denmark- people are renowned for slow moving friendships. So just take time to learn your culture's relationship and the idea of friendship.
Final Thoughts
Making friends while studying abroad can be one of the most fulfilling parts of the experience. It’s an opportunity to connect with people from all over the world, gain unique insights, and even expand your comfort zone. Though it may feel challenging at first, the friendships you form will shape your experience, help you feel more at home, and become an invaluable part of your
journey.
Thomas Doody
Fall 2024
DIS Copenhagen: Study Abroad in Scandinavia
Columbian College of Arts and Science
Sociology Major