As a conversationalist, I love striking up conversations with strangers. Whether I’m in a coffee shop or on the metro, you can always find me connecting with someone. So, when I was getting ready to come to Milan, one of my biggest concerns was how I would connect with people, especially with the language barrier.
In my first few days here I hesitated to approach strangers, as I was worried that my attempts to strike up a casual conversation would feel awkward or ‘get lost in translation.’ But after using the phrase “Do you speak English” to ask for directions or help, I realized that this same, simple question could be used to connect with locals. More often than not, the answer has been yes, and the response has been very positive. Italians are known to be conversational and outgoing, however, it still surprised me how eager people were to start a conversation in English with a foreigner. I have found that many locals are interested in connecting with expats and take these conversations as opportunities to practice their English and learn about life outside of Italy.
One of the most rewarding aspects of these casual conversations has been the ability to learn about people’s different backgrounds, perspectives, and life experiences. Milan is a diverse and multicultural city, and talking to locals has given me a deeper understanding and greater appreciation for Italian culture. Although every interaction is different from one another, these conversations have truly enriched my experience and have made Milan feel like home.
I’ll be honest, it was intimidating at first. However, I have come to realize that taking small risks can lead to big rewards, rewards that have truly made this study abroad experience one that I will cherish for the rest of my life. For example, while waiting in line for a pop-up during Milano Beauty Week, I struck up a conversation with a local woman. What started as a simple conversation about our excitement to try the new Prada perfume led to a longer conversation about her life growing up in Milan and our shared passion for beauty. These conversations have allowed me to immerse myself in the Milanese culture and meet unique people from all over the world.
Something that I’ve found to be interesting is the difference I’ve noticed in the friendships I’ve formed with exchange students compared to those I’ve made with locals. With other exchange students, there’s an instant connection, as we are all going through the same challenges of navigating life in a new city, adjusting to our new routines, and attempting to learn Italian. I’ve met people from six continents and more countries than I can count, each bringing their own culture and background to the table.
While on the other hand, connecting with locals has been a different, more gradual process. I’ve learned that Italians tend to form friendships over time, so learning to be patient and mindful of how relationships are developed has been a unique experience.
Navigating these cultural differences has been incredibly eye-opening, as it has taught me the importance of patience, open-mindedness, unfamiliarity, and compassion. Whether it's a chat about our favorite gelato flavors or stories about our family traditions, these connections have broadened my understanding of the world and have shown me that stepping out of my comfort zone opens doors to new opportunities and friendships.
Maya Welch
Fall 2024
GW Exchange - Bocconi University
GW School of Business
International Business Major